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Who Do I Need To BE?

I am in the process of improving myself and it hasn't been easy.
Believe me, it's been tough.

I am taking 1 step at a time. I am starting here.

I really had a hard time deciding for myself whether to take the big leap or not. It was a choice between being selfish or caring for other people. Or I would say, it was a choice between my own personal career growth and helping other people grow.

I had to make a choice, for my self.

I remember 1 time when i got an email from a mentor saying...

***EVERY level of income DEMANDS a different you.

Let me say it again.

***EVERY level of income DEMANDS a different you.

He exactly said, "You can’t make $30,000 a month carrying around a $3,000 a month mindset.

You can’t make $10,000 a month, carrying around a $1,000 mindset.

I see people getting in trouble every day because they don’t understand this.

Ask yourself this:

Who do I need to BE to make the income I deserve?

What habits do I need to have?

What thoughts do I need to think?

For years, I focused only on what do I need to DO. I should have
spent more time on who do I need to BE." (read this again)

I've been wanting to achieve my 6-digit salary but I am stuck with less than that. That message really made me think. Thinking of what do i need to be to make the income I deserve. What habits to i need to have and thoughts i need to think as I continue to improve on myself.

This is where I need to start.

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