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When the friendship's over.

A lot of people think that breaking up is just for romantic relationship. Never it was brought up or talked about two people, so close to each other, treated like brothers and sisters and suddenly called it off and end their - friendship.

How awkward it can get when you dump someone or someone dumped you because you don't want them in your life as your friend or vice versa -

they can be the "friend" who will call you five times in a row thinking there is an emergency, only for you to find out that they wanted to talk about themselves, or tell lies, or come up with stories they sometimes believe is their reality

or ever had that friend who consistently forgets their wallet at home or promises to pay you back after you've bought them lunch but never does?

Or that friend whom you thought is there for you always willingly to help but will tell everyone how "good s/he is" as your friend and always brag about what they have done for you?

How about a friend who left you because of jealousy and paranoia that their ex-boyfriend is courting you or is in to you.

Say, a friend decided to choose a partner (girlfriend or boyfriend) over you (or your friends).

Or you feel that your friend betrayed you for writing your ex-boyfriend an email that you know don't know what the content was.

Or a friend left you alone because they are afraid of falling for your partner.

Whatever the case maybe, it is hard to just simply let go of a friend.

Not just hard but painful.

especially when you went through a lot, when you cried and laughed together, hang out at your favorite coffee shop or restaurant, when you spend time together for whatever reasons, exchanged messages and phone calls just to say hi and well wishes, when you try out new things together and get adventurous, when you have shared a lot of thoughts, secrets, dreams and goals in life, and just simply be there for each other, no matter what.

Definitely you will shed a lot of tears and cry like a river when you lost a trusted friend.

Someday, as the day goes by, and as you get mature, you will realize that things could have been taken differently and you could have kept a friend if you just open your mind and be more understanding.

No need for friendship's over drama.

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