I got this from another site and I find it valuable to share with you. It is indeed important to spend time with your family and share them the love they also deserved.
After twenty-one years of marriage, I discovered a new way of keeping the spark of love alive. A little while ago, I started to go out with another woman. It was really my wife's idea.
"I know that you love her." She said one day, taking me by surprise.
"But I love You!" I protested.
"I know, but you also love her."
The other woman that my wife wanted me to visit was my mother, who had been a widow for nineteen years. It was only possible to visit her occasionally due to the demands of my work and my three children.
That night, I called to invite her for dinner and a movie.
"What's wrong, are you well?" She asked.
My mother is the type of woman who suspects that a late night call or a surprise invitation is a sign of bad news.
"I thought that it would be pleasant to spend some time with you." I responded.
"Just the two of us."
She thought about it for a moment then said, "I would like that very much."
I drove over to pick her up on Friday after work. I was a bit nervous. When I arrived at her house, I noticed that she, too, seemed to be nervous about our date. She waited at the door with her coat on. She had curled her hair and was wearing the dress that she had worn to celebrate her last wedding anniversary. She was wearing a smile on her face that was as radiant as an angel's.
"I told my friends that I was going to go out with my son, and they were impressed." She said, as she got into the car.
"They can't wait to hear about our meeting."
We went to a restaurant that, although not elegant, was very nice and cosy. My mother took my arm as if she were the First Lady. After we sat down, I had to read the menu. Her eyes could only read the large prints. Half way through the entree, I lifted my eyes and saw Mom sitting there staring at me. A nostalgic smile was on her lips.
"It was I who used to have to read the menu to you when you were small." She said.
"Then it's time that you relax and let me return the favour." I respond.
During the dinner we had a pleasant conversation that was nothing extraordinary. However, it helped us catch up on recent events of each other's life. We talked so much that we missed the movie.
As we arrived at her house later, she said, "I'll go out with you again, but only if you let me invite you".
I agreed.
"How was your dinner date?" Asked my wife when I got home.
"Very nice. Much more than I could have imagined." I answered.
A few days later, my mother died of a massive heart attack. It happened so suddenly that I didn't have a chance to do anything for her. Some time later, I received an envelope with a copy of a restaurant receipt from the same place mother and I had dined.
An attached note said, "I paid this bill in advance. I was almost sure that I couldn't be there but, nevertheless, I paid for two plates - one for you and the other for your wife. You will never know what that night meant for me. I love you."
At that moment, I understand the importance of saying, "I Love You" in time and to give our loved ones the time that they deserved. Nothing in life is more important than your family. Give them the time they deserve because these things cannot be put off to "some other time".
After twenty-one years of marriage, I discovered a new way of keeping the spark of love alive. A little while ago, I started to go out with another woman. It was really my wife's idea.
"I know that you love her." She said one day, taking me by surprise.
"But I love You!" I protested.
"I know, but you also love her."
The other woman that my wife wanted me to visit was my mother, who had been a widow for nineteen years. It was only possible to visit her occasionally due to the demands of my work and my three children.
That night, I called to invite her for dinner and a movie.
"What's wrong, are you well?" She asked.
My mother is the type of woman who suspects that a late night call or a surprise invitation is a sign of bad news.
"I thought that it would be pleasant to spend some time with you." I responded.
"Just the two of us."
She thought about it for a moment then said, "I would like that very much."
I drove over to pick her up on Friday after work. I was a bit nervous. When I arrived at her house, I noticed that she, too, seemed to be nervous about our date. She waited at the door with her coat on. She had curled her hair and was wearing the dress that she had worn to celebrate her last wedding anniversary. She was wearing a smile on her face that was as radiant as an angel's.
"I told my friends that I was going to go out with my son, and they were impressed." She said, as she got into the car.
"They can't wait to hear about our meeting."
We went to a restaurant that, although not elegant, was very nice and cosy. My mother took my arm as if she were the First Lady. After we sat down, I had to read the menu. Her eyes could only read the large prints. Half way through the entree, I lifted my eyes and saw Mom sitting there staring at me. A nostalgic smile was on her lips.
"It was I who used to have to read the menu to you when you were small." She said.
"Then it's time that you relax and let me return the favour." I respond.
During the dinner we had a pleasant conversation that was nothing extraordinary. However, it helped us catch up on recent events of each other's life. We talked so much that we missed the movie.
As we arrived at her house later, she said, "I'll go out with you again, but only if you let me invite you".
I agreed.
"How was your dinner date?" Asked my wife when I got home.
"Very nice. Much more than I could have imagined." I answered.
A few days later, my mother died of a massive heart attack. It happened so suddenly that I didn't have a chance to do anything for her. Some time later, I received an envelope with a copy of a restaurant receipt from the same place mother and I had dined.
An attached note said, "I paid this bill in advance. I was almost sure that I couldn't be there but, nevertheless, I paid for two plates - one for you and the other for your wife. You will never know what that night meant for me. I love you."
At that moment, I understand the importance of saying, "I Love You" in time and to give our loved ones the time that they deserved. Nothing in life is more important than your family. Give them the time they deserve because these things cannot be put off to "some other time".
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