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Unanswered Love


How can she fight for love that she knew from the start who’s going to lose? How can she ever grow in a relationship when she knew someone is going to get hurt?

There isn't a wrong love,

But loving at a wrong time.

She can't plan who or when to love. And sometimes whoever the person she knew she can't fall in love with, is the same person she’s been longing to be with.

And true enough, it is hard to fall in love to someone who belongs to someone else. It is indeed hard to take chances on a relationship if she has nothing to hold on to.

Yes she can be happy but each moment is full of insecurity and anxiety, fears and doubts that she knows someday you will be gone.

She might have asked "What am I to you? Do I have a space in your heart?"

She’s not sure if love is just enough and until when can you love her…

Indeed, she is always delighted to be with you, but happiness isn't just about two hearts being together, but having the peace of mind and peace of heart, and the sincere smile in her face.

How can she ever be happy if she hurt someone?

Sometimes, in your fight for love, one must surrender and give way. No matter how much you love each other, one must sacrifice and let go.

Even if it really hurts.

How can she hold on to you if she doesn't own you?

Love is just sometimes setting your loved one free.

She is grateful to have had you in her life, to teach her lessons, and just fall in love again.

And if in the end, your love will meet again, I pray that everything will fall into place.

I pray.

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